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kristen999 ([personal profile] kristen999) wrote2010-10-07 11:43 pm

Thank Goodness for Fandom

I don't make a big deal about my birthday, I'm low key like that, but as today rolled on by, I've found maybe I'm too sensitive.



I work at a Co-Op, so I'm used to birthdays where the bakers whip up something tasty and there's singing and cake. I've taken part in my share of sign the birthday card. Every month there's a list of B-Days up on the bulletin board. Last year, I was treated to cupcakes and said card and today--nothing. Not a single "Happy Birthday".

Okay, no big deal, but odd since I do hang out with certain people after work for drinks or going out for dinner.

Since last night and today, many on my f-list have sent my sweet Yorkie gifts and posted messages and sent me PMs. That's been the most awesome thing. THANK YOU!

When I got home, too many random things occurred and Eric and I got into a huge--like really bad argument. I was so angry and yes, stubborn--- I refused to go to dinner like planned. The good thing was we had a very meaningful conversation--one where we were honest with each other and actually communicated.

It was too late to go out and we settled in for a bit when one of our couple friends showed up at our doorstep drunk and in the middle of breaking up. He had to call friend to drag the boyfriend away and I told him to talk to Samantha since she was very upset, so he left to help her and I stayed home, because really...were the clown cars next?

So, at the end of the day, I'd say things were a toss up. I want to thank my f-list for being thoughtful. And did I mention that my mother in law was coming up for the weekend from Ga and backed out last night, after I took time off? (Haven't seen her in a year)

Oh, yeah, the weekend is looking good.





And everyone go read and send love to [livejournal.com profile] tepring for writing “Three Embraces” for my birthday. It's sweet and heartfelt. Awesome Teyla POV with team and amazing h/c with Sheppard.

[identity profile] kriadydragon.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, don't think you're being too sensitive. You probably handled better than I would have ;)

And happy belated Birthday. I feel bad for not realizing it was. I'm thinking I need to resurrect the B-day drabbles.

[identity profile] syble4.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
Happy belated birthday. You know, you are entitled to a week long b-day celebration, so have a great weekend and do something for yourself.
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[identity profile] winter-elf.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 04:16 am (UTC)(link)
youch! okay - that's major suckage there. *wants to hit co-workers* That's just.. ugh! I mean, I can understand it if it's understood where there's one 'party/cake' for the 'month', but to not say anything, or for this not to be the standard?

*sigh*

**hugs!**
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[identity profile] lamaudite.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 04:16 am (UTC)(link)
Happy Belated Birthday too. (I've been dreadful at keeping up with LJ and the f-list birthdays.) And wow, what a day you had. Hugs.

[identity profile] vecturist.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 04:21 am (UTC)(link)
Happy Birthday! We October babies need to stick together. I think, after the day you've had, you should have a do-over tomorrow. No cake - what's the deal? (I can do without the singing!)

[identity profile] sgafan.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
Yikes! I Don't think you're being oversensitive at all!

I'm glad to be here to give you virtual B-day hugs and pressies! *HUGS!*

Vec is right! We October babies have to stick together! :)
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[personal profile] sholio 2010-10-08 05:19 am (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday! *hugs* I'm sorry your birthday was such an awful mess.
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[identity profile] xparrot.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
Happy belated birthday, and ack, sorry it was so messy! May your next year be especially awesome to make up for it!

[identity profile] linzi5.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 06:32 am (UTC)(link)
A Belated Happy Birthday! Sorry nobody at work remembered though. I'm not surprised you felt a little hurt, as I would too :( Also sorry the rest of your day didn't go too well either. Maybe it would be cathartic to write a fic where Sheppard's having a really bad day? Ok, you can't blame a girl for trying! Lol! I hope you get to celebrate some other time instead. :)

[identity profile] squonk79.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
Seriously, if that had been my birthday, there'd have been tantrums. You aren't being sensitive at all!

Belated Happy Birthday!

And syble4 is right, i have birthday weeks not days, splash out this weekend!

[identity profile] sadie6.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 07:56 am (UTC)(link)
Holy cow, that sounds like the birthday from hell! *big hugs* Happy Birthday, even though it is past midnight... oops!

[identity profile] katikat.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 08:55 am (UTC)(link)
A belated 'Happy Birthday' from me, B-day girl! *smoosh*

[identity profile] sangate.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 09:50 am (UTC)(link)
First of all, happy belated birthday!!!

But yikes, that doesn't sound good :( What a birthday :( Maybe you can do a do over with boyfy this

[identity profile] gaffsie.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 10:45 am (UTC)(link)
At least it'll be a birthday to remember, although not in the sense you'd prefer. ;)

[identity profile] trishkafibble.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 12:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, that's definitely more drama than one day ought to bring, much less one birthday! I hope that the situation at work turns out to have been some sort of accidental oversight--or perhaps a misguided attempt to be respectful of your low-key approach to birthdays? Let's hope that your weekend turns out unexpectedly fantastic, to make up for it!

I'm so glad that you received much LJ-love--to tell you the truth, I think that may be the first time I've ever managed to post birthday wishes on time, so clearly my guardian angel wanted to brighten your day, too! ^^

Oh, and I've read T'Pring's story already on ff.net, and it's fantastic!! I'm sure your f'list will be glad for the rec!

[identity profile] trystings.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 12:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Belated Happy Birthday and wishing you a great weekend. :)

[identity profile] kodiak-bear.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 01:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy belated birthday! Hope your weekend looks up after that day for sure. :) I've almost finished Red Sands, and with Death Game still a no show, I was happy to have it! It's been a wonderful Ronon and John romp but I'll comment more after it's done. :)

[identity profile] rubygirl29.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 01:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry it was a birthday from Hell. We've all had them. Like you, I keep my birthday low key, but I'm still a bit startled when I get nothing from the people I work with. Probably my own fault because I usually take the day off.

I hope you have a better weekend. At least the weather looks like it will cooperate!

[identity profile] wildcat88.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 02:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I missed your birthday? How did I let that happen? *iz bad friend*

I had a birthday month and since you will have a lovely weekend all to yourself, you should celebrate in style. Go to that dinner with hubby. Write. Snuggle with your kitty. Write. Veg in front of the television with your favorite show and a bag of chocolate (or whatever does it for you). Write.

Oh, did I mention write? Hee!

Hope the weekend turns out fabulous and that you are enjoying some beautiful weather like we're having here.

*tosses confetti*

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!

[identity profile] coolbreeze1.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 02:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry for your bummer of a day but hopefully you can make up for it this weekend. Since you took time off work and now have no one coming, does this mean you can enjoy all that free time for yourself?

Yay for fandom! I loved Tepring's story and am enjoying all of the birthday pic spams as if it's my birthday too! Hope today goes better! HUGS!!

[identity profile] black-raven135.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 04:39 pm (UTC)(link)
No matter what else happens.........we are here to help you celebrate your special day and Sheppard would have helped too, but
as usual he is off world
:D

[identity profile] susnn.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I didn't realize that your natal day had come and gone. May I still wish you this, now that it *has* come and gone: that this be the worst birthday you will ever have had from this day forward, with each being better than the one before.

[identity profile] sidhartinas.livejournal.com 2010-10-08 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi Kristen,
just wanted to wish you a belated happy birthday, I'm not very fond to celebrate my own btd either, but then I do enjoy people's congrats :D

we're very close you and me BTW. I'm oct 5th.

So..hugs!!!

[identity profile] roo1965.livejournal.com 2010-10-09 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Belated birthday wisjes to you as well! Ouch! that's one heck of a day you had. I 'm sorry it was so weird and awful. I hope things are better now.

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